I heard on the news this morning that the lawyer that got gay marriages recognized in Massachusetts is bringing suit against the federal government to recognize legal marriage by the states and provide equal benefits. (http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/03/us/03marriage.html?ref=us)

I support the suit.

Over the past six years I've had the honor of officiating five weddings in Texas.  I firmly believe that the ceremonies I performed had very little to do with the state.  Each was a social or religious agreement between two people to be together forever.  The state had no place there.

Where I believe the state has a place is in a separate, legal situation recognizing a contract between these same two people for the purpose of maintaining property, securing benefits, and situations dealing with children.  The state should be there to record that a contract exists between these people.  The state should *not* call it marriage.

In my magic world, the two events would be made separate.  If your faith allowed gay marriages; great!  If it didn't; great too!  Same for your state governments.  And the federal government . .  their job is to interfere with the states as little as possible.  If a state says that a legal contract exists . . then that is that.  Recognize baby!


The following excerpts are the main provisions of the Act:

Powers reserved to the states:

No State, territory, or possession of the United States, or Indian tribe, shall be required to give effect to any public act, record, or judicial proceeding of any other State, territory, possession, or tribe respecting a relationship between persons of the same sex that is treated as a marriage under the laws of such other State, territory, possession, or tribe, or a right or claim arising from such relationship.

Definition of 'marriage' and 'spouse':

In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word 'marriage' means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife, and the word 'spouse' refers only to a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife.

 

The act itself: http://frwebgate.access.gpo.gov/cgi-bin/getdoc.cgi?dbname=104_cong_public_laws&docid=f:publ199.104

 

 


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on Mar 18, 2009

Incidentally, "benefit" derives from the latin "benefacere", "to do a service".

Since the so-called "benefits" I mentioned do not actually involve anyone (or the government) "doing a service", I did and do not consider them "benefits" and I don't see how it is anybody's business whether they exist or not.

Government recognising my contracts has nothing to do with receiving a service from government other than what government owes to all of us.

If that makes me a liar or illiterate, so be it.

But I still don't think that it is the government's business to agree or disagree with my selection of people who inherit from me, people who can speak for me, and people who have special rights to be my confidants.

 

on Mar 18, 2009

my 2 cents worth is gay marriage / civil union what ever you want to call it should be allowed for any two consenting adults with same rights and obligations. personaly i would prefer they call it cival union, marriage is to religious sounding for me and i def am not religious.

My sentiments exactly.

 

and you people arguing about sodom and gormora being destroyed  by god cos  of homo sex did u ever stop to think perhaps it was because a mere man wanted to have sex with a angel? AN ANGEL people thats like a animal trying to have sex with a man/woman i would destroy a animal that tried to have persistent sex with one of my daughters just like god destroyed that town (personaly i reckon it was more then likely a meteor shower tho)

Yes, I did stop to think about it being about doing something to an angel (rather than men). I mentioned that problem. And your comparison makes a lot of sense (Biblical angels are indeed a level above man since they are messengers from G-d).

And yes, I too think that it was a meteor shower that destroyed the cities.

 

ps i am gay and yes i do have 3 daugthers since i tried doing the str8 thing but in the end it was either kill myself or be true to myself and honest to everyone else and come out and that is the only choice in being gay or straight... either be true to ones self or not!

Kudos for being honest about it!

Don't expect much condemnation from me, dude!

 

on Mar 18, 2009

and you people arguing about sodom and gormora being destroyed by god cos of homo sex did u ever stop to think perhaps it was because a mere man wanted to have sex with a angel? AN ANGEL people thats like a animal trying to have sex with a man/woman i would destroy a animal that tried to have persistent sex with one of my daughters just like god destroyed that town (personaly i reckon it was more then likely a metore shower tho)



ps i am gay

And don't you think your being gay has clouded your objectivity a bit? 

The men were male.  The angels were male.  The men of the town did not know they were angels.  The writer to the NT clarified things up a bit when he explained that Sodom and Gomorroh were destroyed because of sexual sins involving both homo and hetero sex outside of marriage.....nothing mentioned about it having to do with angels. 

on Mar 18, 2009

And don't you think your being gay has clouded your objectivity a bit? 

Not more so than your being straight has clouded yours.

 

The men were male.  The angels were male.  The men of the town did not know they were angels.  The writer to the NT clarified things up a bit when he explained that Sodom and Gomorroh were destroyed because of sexual sins involving both homo and hetero sex outside of marriage.....nothing mentioned about it having to do with angels.

G-d decided to destroy the city before that event with the angels ever happened. Furthermore, if this is about G-d's reaction to the crime, the fact that they were angels is relevant, since G-d knew that they were.

Angels are not male. They really don't have a gender.

And whatever it was they men did to the angels, it would have been a crime if the angels had been women too. Rape (if that was what they were doing, the text doesn't actually say so) is wrong, regardless of whether it is homosexual rape or not.

 

on Mar 18, 2009

Angels are not male. They really don't have a gender.

Really?  You may want to revisit the scriptures.  Start with Genesis 18 with Abraham entertaining "three men" who turned out to be angels.

"The Lord appeared to Abraham near the great trees of Mamre while he was sitting at the entrance to his tent in the heat of the day.  Abraham looked up and saw thee men standing nearby.......the men turned away and went toward Sodom." 

You're wrong Leauki.  Just admit it.  I know it's hard for you but you're not always right like you think you are.  Everywhere in scripture where angels are brought up it's with a male pronoun.   Gabe and Michael are the only two named angels and they were most certainly male. 

And whatever it was they men did to the angels, it would have been a crime if the angels had been women too. Rape (if that was what they were doing, the text doesn't actually say so) is wrong, regardless of whether it is homosexual rape or not.

Agree.  I believe by looking at "all" the scriptures concerning this passage that both hetero and homo sex was being perverted in God's eyes.  And it's HIS opinion that matters, not our own. 

G-d decided to destroy the city before that event with the angels ever happened. Furthermore, if this is about G-d's reaction to the crime, the fact that they were angels is relevant, since G-d knew that they were

Like you said...God was already going to destroy the city so the angels were NOT relevant.  They were God's messengers delivering a judgment.  God already decided what he was going to do.  What these townsmen did was merely evidence of their perverted behavior and proving to us that God was right in his decision. 

 

 

on Mar 18, 2009

Really?  You may want to revisit the scriptures.  Start with Genesis 18 with Abraham entertaining "three men" who turned out to be angels.

Angels can look like men, but they are not male.

 

You're wrong Leauki.  Just admit it.  I know it's hard for you but you're not always right like you think you are.  Everywhere in scripture where angels are brought up it's with a male pronoun.   Gabe and Michael are the only two named angels and they were most certainly male.

What pronoun should the Bible use? Hebrew doesn't have a neutral gender.

Consider this song:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sza9ZsP4u9U

The singer is obviously female but she uses the male forms of the verbs. Following your logic that would be evidence for her being a man. Following my logic it is evidence for her using a generic form of the verbs, meaning that not she herself "asks and prays" but that anyone might.

Incidentally, "gabriel" is Aramaic for "strongman of G-d". But I have never heard of angels mating or having a gender.

 

on Mar 18, 2009

Like you said...God was already going to destroy the city so the angels were NOT relevant.  They were God's messengers delivering a judgment.  God already decided what he was going to do.  What these townsmen did was merely evidence of their perverted behavior and proving to us that God was right in his decision.

Which means we are back to the question of why G-d destroyed the city.

Your "evidence" for the reason being the city's homosexuality is now completely destroyed as the event you read as an example of homosexuality turns out not to have influenced G-d's decision after all.

 

on Mar 18, 2009

It is forced acceptance and nothing else.

How does accepting a civil union impact your life?  Hell how does accepting impact your life?  It doesn't.  What we are asking for here is that civil unions be allowed to file joint tax returns, transfer property easier, be present in the hospital room when another member of that union is ill, etc.  None of that will impact your life or force you to do anything.  However denying civil unions is impacting the lives of those who would benefit from them.

 

on Mar 18, 2009

Really? You may want to revisit the scriptures. Start with Genesis 18 with Abraham entertaining "three men" who turned out to be angels.

Unless Abraham checked under the robes how would he know if they were really men?  Why would Angels have any need to procreate?  If they have no need to procreate why would they need sexual organs of any kind?  Maybe "three men" was just the best description that Abraham could give to anyone who asked.  Just a thought.

Everywhere in scripture where angels are brought up it's with a male pronoun

And God is often referred to with the male pronoun but even you have admitted that he is neither male nor female if I recall correctly.  Do we have a genderless pronoun to refer to Angels or God other than it which is more to refer to an object not a being.

 

on Mar 18, 2009

and you people arguing about sodom and gormora being destroyed by god cos of homo sex did u ever stop to think perhaps it was because a mere man wanted to have sex with a angel?

KFC POSTS:

The men were male. The angels were male. The men of the town did not know they were angels. The writer to the NT clarified things up a bit when he explained that Sodom and Gomorroh were destroyed because of sexual sins involving both homo and hetero sex outside of marriage.....nothing mentioned about it having to do with angels.

This is a good answer in response to the question, but you know Leauki is a stickler when it comes to language and trying to prove his point and so he replied with:

 LEAUKI POSTS:

Angels are not male. They really don't have a gender.

And this is true in the sense that Angels are purely spiritual beings who serve God in various capacities. Tobais 12:18 tells us that the primary function of angels is to do God's will. God's will has angels intervene in human affairs appearing to them in human bodily form..so while angels technically aren't male, Genesis identifies them as "men" and always appearing as male.

kfc posts# 230

You may want to revisit the scriptures. Start with Genesis 18 with Abraham entertaining "three men" who turned out to be angels.

"The Lord appeared to Abraham near the great trees of Mamre while he was sitting at the entrance to his tent in the heat of the day. Abraham looked up and saw thee men standing nearby.......the men turned away and went toward Sodom."

So Abraham invited them to eat and after the meal, when they were about to leave, one of them said to Abraham that after a year he would return and that Sara, Abraham's wife would have a son. Then Abraham understood that the Lord God Himself, accompanied by angels, was his guest. He knew it becasue He revealed things to him which only God could have known.

Then v. 16, Abraham went part of the way to Sodom. While the two angels went on to Sodom, the Lord remained with Abraham. It's here, v. 20,  that we learn of our Lord God's discussion with Abraham why God intended to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah.

V. 20,21  "And the Lord God said, The cry of Sodom and Gomorrah is multiplied, and their sin is become exceedingly grevious. I will go down and see whether they have done according to the cry that is come to me: or whether it not be so, that I may know."

In accordance with Sacred Scripture Catholic theology teaches there are 4 sins which cry to Heaven for vengeance...the sin of Sodom as God pronounced here is one of the four. True, their (both cities) sins (plural) were many, but the sin (singular) of Sodom ( those of unnatural impurity which is sodomy) were the chief and most grevious to God.  God promised Abraham that He wouldn't destroy if Abraham could find 10 just men but the ten just men weren't to be found and so God sent the two angels to destroy it.

God's hatred of sexual impurity, the most shameful of all sins, is an abomination before God and that is the lesson we should take from Genesis 18 and 19. It leads to many other sins and easily results in impenitence and impiety, as was the case of Sodom and Gomorrah. Almighty God doesn't always punish sins in this world, but He will certainly do so in the next at our final Judgment.

"Do not err; neither fornicators, nor adulterers shall possess the kingdom of God." 1Cor. 6:9.

on Mar 18, 2009

so while angels technically aren't male, Genesis identifies them as "men" and always appearing as male.

I would imagine that this is the case because at the time period society was very much a patriarch and the female form would not have gotten the respect that the male form would have.

 

on Mar 18, 2009

Angels can look like men, but they are not male.

well they're always depicted in the male sense as is God.  So do with it what you want Leauki.  I'm not going to argue semantics with you, like you seem to like, but they're NEVER depicted as female. 

Incidentally, "gabriel" is Aramaic for "strongman of G-d". But I have never heard of angels mating or having a gender.

there you go.  Good answer.  You can stop at the "but."  

 Actually there is something about the angels mating in Gen 6.  Admittedly there's much discussion about this but many commentators over the years believe these were angels taking on the form of men and mating with human women, an idea from Satan trying to dirty the lineage knowing that the Messiah was to come from woman down the line.

Your "evidence" for the reason being the city's homosexuality is now completely destroyed as the event you read as an example of homosexuality turns out not to have influenced G-d's decision after all.

Whoa!  Hold on.  Are you saying that I'm saying this was the ONLY occurance of homosexuality in this city?  This lone example was evidence of the problem going on in that city.  It's as though God was saying "see this is why I'm destroying this city.  It's as bad as I said to Abraham." 

Unless Abraham checked under the robes how would he know if they were really men? Why would Angels have any need to procreate? If they have no need to procreate why would they need sexual organs of any kind? Maybe "three men" was just the best description that Abraham could give to anyone who asked. Just a thought.

Com'on don't be stupid.  It says men....it was men.  Read it yourself.  Scripture also says that we should be careful because we don't know when we might be visited by angels.  If God can take on a human body in the person of Christ don't you think an angel could?   Who said anything about procreating anyhow?  Its clear El-D you're over your head here discussing this subject and since you've not done the reading Homework it's hard to go over every little detail with you.  You need to read the material first. 

And God is often referred to with the male pronoun but even you have admitted that he is neither male nor female if I recall correctly. Do we have a genderless pronoun to refer to Angels or God other than it which is more to refer to an object not a being.

Nope I've never said or admitted any such thing.  God is spirit.  We know that.  But he's always depicted as a Father, not a mother.  He's always depicted as male not female.  I can't go any further than that. 

 

 

on Mar 18, 2009

I would imagine that this is the case because at the time period society was very much a patriarch and the female form would not have gotten the respect that the male form would have.

while that's true, it goes deeper than that.  Thousands of years after Moses wrote Jesus showed up on the scene as did the NT writers and they also referred to God as "father."  Jesus taught us how to pray "Our father who art in heaven." 

 

on Mar 18, 2009

You can't fault them for wanting to pass on their genes instead of just their beleifs.

 

 

Why not?

Because procreation is a natural urge. Because there is a difference between an adopted and a biological child. Because spending your money on yourself instead of on charity is not evil.

A better question is why WOULD you fault a person for spending money on conception therapy instead of just giving up on having biological children and instead adopting a child?

Only reason I can think of is that "god meant for them to be barren and adopt a child instead". And as an atheist that is not a valid reason.

 

parkNride... WTF is "persistent" sex? and sodom and gemora they tried to rape the angels, not have sex with them. An angel is NOT an animal, nor is it beastiality... You do not have the power to call down meteors, you are crazy. And finally if an animal (not metaphorically) to hump your daughter it should be "fixed" not killed... you know what, I just don't know what to say to you except get some therapy and perspective.

on Mar 19, 2009

WTF is "persistent" sex? and sodom and gemora they tried to rape the angels, not have sex with them. . An angel is NOT an animal, nor is it beastiality... You do not have the power to call down meteors, you are crazy. And finally if an animal (not metaphorically) to hump your daughter it should be "fixed" not killed... you know what, I just don't know what to say to you except get some therapy and perspective.

 

Um taltamir I didn't say I could bring down meteors I said it was probably a meteor shower that destroyed the place.

I didn’t refer to angels as animals I placed them higher than us as we place ourselves higher then animals .

I used the word persistent as using the word rape for an animal didn’t seem the right word to use for an animal.

And so let me get this right it’s ok for god to wipe out a entire city because of their sexual urges or whatever you wish to refer to it as, plus other stuff but if a animal keeps trying to do the same thing its have its nuts cut off. So why didn’t god do that to the citizens of the city?  I mean he is god he should be able to do that he is the almighty, anyone can kill and destroy we humans do it all the time that’s no deterrent but the men/women of a entire town being “fixed” overnight I’m sure would make people stand up and take notice a hell of a lot more then destroying the city and killing everyone.

 So god destroys Sodom and Gomorrah but lets people like Hitler kill thousands of innocent people and does nothing where was god then? Having a nap?

 

“, I just don't know what to say to you except get some therapy and perspective.”

 I don’t need therapy I stop believing in fairytales when I was about 2 yrs old and perspective oh please pot calling kettle black there.

 

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