I heard on the news this morning that the lawyer that got gay marriages recognized in Massachusetts is bringing suit against the federal government to recognize legal marriage by the states and provide equal benefits. (http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/03/us/03marriage.html?ref=us)

I support the suit.

Over the past six years I've had the honor of officiating five weddings in Texas.  I firmly believe that the ceremonies I performed had very little to do with the state.  Each was a social or religious agreement between two people to be together forever.  The state had no place there.

Where I believe the state has a place is in a separate, legal situation recognizing a contract between these same two people for the purpose of maintaining property, securing benefits, and situations dealing with children.  The state should be there to record that a contract exists between these people.  The state should *not* call it marriage.

In my magic world, the two events would be made separate.  If your faith allowed gay marriages; great!  If it didn't; great too!  Same for your state governments.  And the federal government . .  their job is to interfere with the states as little as possible.  If a state says that a legal contract exists . . then that is that.  Recognize baby!


The following excerpts are the main provisions of the Act:

Powers reserved to the states:

No State, territory, or possession of the United States, or Indian tribe, shall be required to give effect to any public act, record, or judicial proceeding of any other State, territory, possession, or tribe respecting a relationship between persons of the same sex that is treated as a marriage under the laws of such other State, territory, possession, or tribe, or a right or claim arising from such relationship.

Definition of 'marriage' and 'spouse':

In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word 'marriage' means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife, and the word 'spouse' refers only to a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife.

 

The act itself: http://frwebgate.access.gpo.gov/cgi-bin/getdoc.cgi?dbname=104_cong_public_laws&docid=f:publ199.104

 

 


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on Mar 09, 2009

And that's my major hold up, it appears that Christians have chosen to ignore lots of the "abominations" but they choose to keep the one related to homosexuality. I just want to know why some were thrown out and others were kept.
Zubaz waits for the reply.
And our government has a freedom of religion as well as a freedom from religion so that anyones religious beliefs are not forced on others. Hence civil unions should be definied simply as between consenting adults and nothing more. If people want to get married they should have to do so through a religious institution which would then have to approve of their relationship, etc. But as far as the law is concerned people in a civil union should be treated the same as those who are married.
Amen 

on Mar 09, 2009

But just because it was in the bible and it happens to be outlawed in the United States (and other countries) doesn't mean that the law was based on religion.

That's not what I said. I said that a prohibition of murder is a religious issue. Some religions (including Christianity, Judaism, Islam, most pre-Christian European religions) prohibited it. Hence the western custom of prohibiting murder.

Either way, whether one supports laws that prohibit murder or not is a question of one's religion.

 

Forbidden is a strong word too.  If it's a recommendation for a desert people then use a word like recommendation or qualify the word abomination (or forebidden) so that it only applies to certain people.  Such language isn't there in the bibles that I've seen.

It's not a recommendation. It's a law. It is indeed FORBIDDEN for Jews to eat certain animals by Jewish law. If you read your Bible you will see that the "abominations" in question are listed on stone tablets given to the Israelites as their law. It has nothing to do with other peoples and I don't see why a Jewish book of law should mention specifically that Jewish law does not apply to non-Jews.

 

Then how is one supposed to be able to determine what laws apply to what people?  And that's my major hold up, it appears that Christians have chosen to ignore lots of the "abominations" but they choose to keep the one related to homosexuality.  I just want to know why some were thrown out and others were kept.  And then why people who aren't Christian should be held to the same rules as Christians.

In general peoples in history didn't have a major problem with it. Romans followed Roman law, Carthaginians followed Carthaginian law, and Jews followed Jewish law.

If you want to determine who is to follow which law you can start by not reading another people's law to find out what you are supposed to do. That would help.

As I said, the Bible specifically says that the law about sexual immorality (which I take is where the Christians take their stand against homosexuality from) is one that is binding for all people.

You ask that G-d please make it clear which law is for whom. Well, according to the Bible He did. There is Jewish law and Noahide law. The second is supposed to be binding for all, whether for all descendants of Noah or for everybody else or whether the two are the same group I cannot tell you as the Bible does not tell us that either.

 

 

 

on Mar 09, 2009

Zubaz waits for the reply.

How often do you want me to give you the answer?

Some things in the Bible are binding for Jews, others are binding for all.

 

 

on Mar 09, 2009

It's not that the people should be barred from government, they shouldn't, but religious beliefs should NOT become laws of the government (ie homosexuals cannot join in civil unions and enjoy the same benefits as marriage from a legal standpoint).  Especially in the case of gay marriage or civil unions (whichever you prefer to call it) many feel that when government says that unions can only be between a man and a woman that is forcing some religious doctrine down their throats which is supposedly not allowed in our country.

Again, the belief that homosexual marriage is the same as heterosexual marriage is a religious belief just like the belief that they are different. Which one of the two do you want to be law?

The law about marriage (in Common Law) is older than the law (in the American Constitution) that says that religious beliefs must not be forced on people. The constitution speaks about laws made, not about laws existing.

While you cannot (legally) create a law that established a religion in the US now, this article of the constitution simply doesn't apply to English Common Law which was and remains valid in the US (except in Louisiana) unless changed by US law.

 

on Mar 09, 2009

Government should be secular in nature, that's what our founders wanted and that is what we should continue doing.

which is not what our founders wanted at all and I've got lots and lots of their writings to show for it.  That's what we're being told today so we can push these types of agendas ahead. Why now?  Why are we having these discussions now if the founding fathers were all cozy about this?   Allowing homosexuality as an ethical and alternative lifestyle will be the downfall of our culture.  It's always the last step before a culture goes down. 

If you need rainbows in the sky and all sorts of "actions"/"preventions" etc., then you're not really talking about faith, are you?

Yes.  Our faith is based on facts and logic.  God never said we were just to have faith without revelation.  He gives us what we need.  Peter many remember walked on water because of his faith.  He didn't do that by himself.  Jesus showed him how by walking before him and showing him.  Abraham wasn't asked to sacrifice his son until he was quite old and had seen the hand of God in his life all up until that point.  In the beginning he wasn't so sure about trusting God.  So much so that we see that Abraham lied twice to protect his and his wife's life earlier in their lives.  Gideon tested God because he was so unsure he asked for proof and God supplied it. 

Like God supposedly did throughout the Old Testament?

yes and like he did in the NT and still does today. 

I think "busted" was when I reminded you that G-d had decided to destroy Sodom and Gamora BEFORE the event with the angels and that hence the event you cited had nothing to do with that decision.

I actually brought that up as well (in Chap 18) when God said there wickedness was crying out to him.  There was more going on there than just gross inhospitality. 

Can you tell me why raping angels (and I still don't believe that that is what they wanted to do, Josephus had a dirty mind) is a "homosexual" act? Angels do not have a defined sex, surely.

The angels in scripture have all come across as male.  Kind of funny considering we depict them in a femine way isn't it?  It's clear they are male angels and the "men" of the town wanted them outside so they could have at em....so it's some sort of homosexual tendency going on here.  Usually men rape women not other men unless you're talking prison. 

 Now you're saying Josephus had a dirty mind?  Why?  Because I gave him as proof?  You didn't say that before when you quoted him first.  Remember you brought up Josephus before I did. 

If you want a compromise, I will admit that trying to rape angels is wicked. (I would go as far as saying that it is inhospitable.)

I don't compromise scripture Leauki and that's not really a compromise anyhow.  That's a given.  I'm just reading it plainly and with scripture interpreting scripture like you pointed out in Ezek and my pointing out Jude we can see it is a compound of sins with the last straw being sexual devient behavior. 

 

on Mar 09, 2009

So why exactly is my opinion worth less than yours just because it happens to be based on a religion?

exactly Leauki.  We're in agreement totally. 

 

And the inference that can be taken from all of the above passages is that if you eat any of those items then you too can be regarded as an abomination.

good job El-D.  I knew you could find them and it's nice to see you interested in scripture ....but did you know that God also released them from being an abomination later?  So it's ok to eat these things now?  Do you know there's a reason behind all of this concerning the Jews and the Gentiles?  I won't get into all that here but  Leauki actually backs me up here with his comment.....



Note that these are rules for Jews, not for gentiles. The above is excellent advise for a people living in the desert without access to a refrigerator.

Incidentally, I don't eat seafood that doesn't have fins and scales. I don't eat shellfish or birds of prey or insects. (You will find that certain land animals are also "abominations" and must not be eaten.) Again, this is for Jews only.

Now those Jews who acknowledge the NT they do not have such a prohibition put on them. 

 

on Mar 09, 2009

Sexual Perversion, Lack of hospitality... those are both just details.  Sodom and Gamorrah were destroyed for 1 reason and 1 reason alone...

32 And he said, Oh let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak yet but this once: Peradventure ten shall be found there. And he said, I will not destroy it for ten’s sake.

It wasn't any specific sin, it was the fact that there were no righteous to be found in those cesspools.

on Mar 09, 2009

And that's my major hold up, it appears that Christians have chosen to ignore lots of the "abominations" but they choose to keep the one related to homosexuality. I just want to know why some were thrown out and others were kept.

Zubaz waits for the reply.

Christians HAVE NOT ignored anything.  The dietary laws that were given to the Jews in the OT were NOT given to the Gentiles.  Never were given to the Gentiles in fact.

In fact if you read the book of Acts you would find that Peter (a Jew) was given a vision from God saying that all things were now safe to eat and that the wall that separated Jew and Gentile was now torn down.  Peter had a hard time with this at first especially.  Paul talks a good deal about this as well calling it a mystery know revealed.  The dietary law was for sanitary reasons and also separated the two groups.  Now Jew and Gentile were to dwell together, as well as eat together as prophesied way back after the flood that Shem (Jews) and Japeth (Gentiles) would dwell together under one tent. 

As I said, the Bible specifically says that the law about sexual immorality (which I take is where the Christians take their stand against homosexuality from) is one that is binding for all people.

yes as you know Leauki it was very clear in the OT and also repeated more than once for good measure in the NT.  That never changed.  Any type of sexual sin, be it adultery, homosexuality, sex outside of marriage, beastility etc...is a direct sin against God.  David recognized this and fell on his knees in repentance after his sin with Bathsheba and that's the reason he was called a man after God's own heart.  He recognized his grievious sin that was against God and repented.  You can read about this in Psalm 51.  The homosexuals are blatant about their sin even trying to have it legalized and for that we are going down.  It's like a fist in God's face.    You wait and see.  It won't take long. 

But the law regarding sexual immorality is one of the Noahide laws, not the "ten" commandments.

my husband explained to me the other day the difference between having morality and being ethical.  Morality is based on a standard of right and wrong that is outside of ourselves.  God would be that standard.  It's like that's the never changing plumbline.  How we choose to act according to his standard is evidence of where our morality lies.  Being ethical is dependant on the changing culture.  What is ethical today might not have been 20 years ago.  Morality never changes.  Ethics do.  Our culture, for instance, is continuing to move away from morality so for Christians we are to stand out more and more as the gap widens between morality and ethics.  Sorry to say, many Christians are falling into the gap; some trying to jump on the ever widening hole that separates the world from those who don't claim the world as their home. 

And my point was simply that there were lots of things listed as abominations that many christians choose to ignore, so why harp on the whole man who lays with man as he does a woman abomination.

no we don't.  You're going in a direction you know nothing about.  You're not putting down that the abominations were done away with....hint........ check the book of Acts while you're reading scripture.  If you're going to tell a story at least tell the end of the story.  You may also want to check out a few NT books that repeats that men with men and women with women is still an abomination....start with Romans 1.  That never changed. 

You misunderstand the "denominations" of Judaism. They do not actually believe different things. They vary in traditions, not belief. They are also not "different" Judaisms, there is only one Jewish people.

Religious Jews keep kosher and observe the Shabbas in the most strict way. Non-religious Jews do not. Traditional Jews are somewhere in the middle. But they believe the same things. They do not have different ideas of the nature of G-d (like the Christian denominations do).

It's the same with many Christian groups.  There are reasons that have to do with traditions and manner of doing services.  Some like modern, some like traditional.  Some like plain and simple and some like an organized liturgy.  It's like different flavors of ice cream.  Some like plain vanilla and some like nuts and goo in theirs.  The only thing to watch out for is that it's really ice cream.  Some are artificial only resembling the real thing and you'll only understand and recognize it if you're familiar with what real ice cream tastes like. 

Just because a group calls themselves Christian they are not.  The Christians are all united by the essentials.  They may be divided by traditions and what we call non-essentials but the essentials is what ties us all together into one family regardless of denomination. 

 

 

 

 

on Mar 09, 2009

It wasn't any specific sin, it was the fact that there were no righteous to be found in those cesspools.

and that's exactly true Ted.  It was more like a progression of sin the last straw being the sin of homosexuality.  There is a downslide or progression and from what we read here and in Ezek, there was no hope or turning back since they were so dirty and steeped in their sin. 

on Mar 09, 2009

 Now you're saying Josephus had a dirty mind?  Why?  Because I gave him as proof?  You didn't say that before when you quoted him first.  Remember you brought up Josephus before I did. 

I brought him up as proof for my assertion that Sodom was destroyed for inhospitality, not homosexuality.

And yes, he had a dirty mind.

 

on Mar 09, 2009

Christians HAVE NOT ignored anything.  The dietary laws that were given to the Jews in the OT were NOT given to the Gentiles.  Never were given to the Gentiles in fact.

That is exactly right.

As I said, there is no (Biblical) reason for an Eskimo not to eat whale flesh.

 

In fact if you read the book of Acts you would find that Peter (a Jew) was given a vision from God saying that all things were now safe to eat and that the wall that separated Jew and Gentile was now torn down.  Peter had a hard time with this at first especially. 

Yes, I don't believe that. But I did quote the part about Peter having a hard time with it to be fair to Peter.

I think the forbidden things became safe to eat when refrigeration and antibiotics were invented. But I still won't eat the forbidden foods if I can avoid it.

 

on Mar 09, 2009

Either way, whether one supports laws that prohibit murder or not is a question of one's religion.

I disagree but we can just agree to disagree on this point.

It's not a recommendation. It's a law. It is indeed FORBIDDEN for Jews to eat certain animals by Jewish law. If you read your Bible you will see that the "abominations" in question are listed on stone tablets given to the Israelites as their law. It has nothing to do with other peoples and I don't see why a Jewish book of law should mention specifically that Jewish law does not apply to non-Jews.

I'm not saying that it should, necessarily, what I am saying is that if the Christians are going to use the Jewish book of laws as the basis for their religion they shouldn't be picking and choosing which aspects to listen to, especially when such a strong word like "abomination" is being used.

Again, the belief that homosexual marriage is the same as heterosexual marriage is a religious belief just like the belief that they are different. Which one of the two do you want to be law?

Which is why I have been arguing for civil unions.  That way marriages can remain religious in nature and civil unions can simply be a way for two people who make a life-long contract with one another to file taxes together, transfer estates easier, be present when your significant other is on their deathbed (or vice versa), etc.

which is not what our founders wanted at all and I've got lots and lots of their writings to show for it. That's what we're being told today so we can push these types of agendas ahead. Why now? Why are we having these discussions now if the founding fathers were all cozy about this? Allowing homosexuality as an ethical and alternative lifestyle will be the downfall of our culture. It's always the last step before a culture goes down.

If they didn't want a secular government then why is there only one reference to a creator of any kind in either the declaration of independence or the US Constitution?  They took great pains to keep religion out of those documents for a reason.  As for your last statement there, I just disagree and I don't think we will ever see eye to eye on that one.

 

on Mar 09, 2009

Sacred Scripture is God's written word and since God is not a God of confusion, there can be only one correct sense of it's meaning otherwise we'd have total confusion as to its meaning.

EL-DUDERINO POSTS:

Is this why there are so many different denominations of Christianity,

Yes, at least in part and that's why I explained it:

Anyone can interpret Sacred Scripture and they may get it right and they might not...and that's the rub. Have 10 people interprete and you'll have 10 different interpretations and then 10 different doctrines based on that person's interpretation. Happens all the time in Protestantism and that's why there are thousands of churches all based on someones's private interpretation. Started with Luther's private interpretation and hasn't stopped since.

EL-DUDERINO POSTS #151

not to mention all the denominations of judaism

leauki posts #153

You misunderstand the "denominations" of Judaism. They do not actually believe different things. They vary in traditions, not belief. They are also not "different" Judaisms, there is only one Jewish people.

Leauki,

Your answer is somewhat misleading. Judaism strictly speaking is the religion while the Jews are a race of people.

While there is only one race of Jewish people, there are different forms of Judaism. Hebraic, sacerdotal or priestly Judaism (Biblical Judaism) was revealed by Our Lord God Himself. The modern forms of Judaism were all developed by man after the Jewish dispersion and the only point of unity with Hebraic Judaism is in reciting the "prayer" called the Shema.

Judaism today is divided synagogically into Orthodox, Reform and Conservative congregations. These are a unit in denying Christian concepts of Mosaic teachings and unbelief that Jesus the Christ is the Messias, the Redeemer of mankind come to restore man to the inheritance lost by the sin of our first parents.

I'd say that Orthodox, Reform and Conservative Judaism not only vary in traditions, but believe different things.

on Mar 09, 2009

And yes, he had a dirty mind.

no he didn't anymore than I do.  What about Jude?  You never commented on his explanation after I mentioned it.  Open your eyes Leauki and read it again without your being swayed by that Rabbi.  Homosexuality was and is still a grievious sin in God's eyes.  That was the last sin in a progression of many.  I believe that's why God said he was going down to check on the wickedness that was crying out to him.  It's like being at the end of their rope.  Their sin had reached the top and God heard and took action. 

It's going to be the same in the end times (which is increasingly growing nearer).  It's put that God will allow us to fill up our cup with wickedness before he pours out his cup of wrath on the whole world.   The acceptance of homosexuality is a big part of this. 

on Mar 09, 2009

I'm not saying that it should, necessarily, what I am saying is that if the Christians are going to use the Jewish book of laws as the basis for their religion they shouldn't be picking and choosing which aspects to listen to, especially when such a strong word like "abomination" is being used.

you keep hanging onto this El-D but they don't.  How many times do Leauki and I have to say this.  We don't even have to use the OT or Jewish law.  I can gladly take you to the NT to show this as well.  It's clear in both the OT and NT that this is quite the abomination to God and as far as I know, hasn't been revoked. 

 

 

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